Wednesday, 13 February 2019

Some New Thinking Concerning Goal Setting

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Welcome to this week's blog and let me start this post with a question...

How many times have you come across at least one of the following statements……… You Can’t Move a Mountain or Take Baby Steps?  Or that old chestnut “When you eat an Elephant take one bite at a time”?

I am pretty certain that every single one of you will have heard these things before.  

Of course you have – because that advice about breaking projects down into their component parts is repeated many times by well wishers when you begin tackling something big.

Small Steps Do Matter

It is far easier to focus you attention on putting “one foot in front of the other” that it is to look at the entire route ahead of you and suffer from overwhelm.

Breaking tasks into smaller chunks helps you to view the large task as more easily accomplished.  The added bonus of this is that it reduces our tendency to “put things off” because we just don’t know where to begin.

Have you ever asked yourself why this method of working does exactly that – it works!

You are doing approximately the same amount of work but for some reason this one step at a time method is very helpful to each of us.

It works because, breaking tasks into small ones helps us to see the big task as achievable and actually within our capabilities.  This then, is precisely why we cease to defer starting the project.

So now let us take a look at some of the reasons we prefer to eat an elephant one bite at a time

Our Brains Are Limited

Human memory is flawed and it is definitely limited, we simply cannot remember everything.

Memory limits can vary slightly between people and studies have shown that the average working memory capacity is only 3 to 5 items at a given time.  Trying to remember more than this number will lead to certain things “falling out of your brain”
 “If we rely on our memory, we’ll stop at every step of the task and think, ‘What am I supposed to do next?’” explains Dr. Gratias, “Those stops are opportunities to get distracted, get off track, or miss a step.”
Simply, breaking a larger project down into smaller to-dos helps us to easily identify what step we should take next.
There is one more important note to make about this:

You should not do this process in your head (because, in case you already forgot, your memory is not that good).

These individual steps should be written down as a task or check list.  You can then refer back to that as the roadmap for your project if you cannot remember what comes next.

You Work Better With Specific Goals

Imagine that you have a major project on your plate:—

for example, you are handling the launch of a totally new website for your company or organisation.

At first glance, your goal seems very simple, you just have to get the new website ready. Whereas, that is really a vague objective unless you qualify it with the following questions:-

Just What is “ready”?
When does the site need to go live?
How will this happen?

So I hope that you now see that “getting the entire website completed” provides very little direction!


Regular Feedback Keeps You On Track

Large projects can span many weeks—sometimes stretching into months or even years. Imagine that you have invested all of that work into a project, only to discover at a much later date that you have been working totally off track.
Breaking down these large projects into smaller parts is really crucial: It provides an opportunity for feedback and to make adjustments where they become necessary.
Feedback can be seen as demotivating, particularly when it is harsh or constructive, but science proves that feedback of any type - whether it’s positive or negative - inspires us to keep moving forward.

In a study of 157 participants who played a brain-training game, it was discovered that:
·         Negative feedback decreased feelings of competence, but still increased immediate game play.
·         Negative feedback motivated participants to repair their short-term performance.
·         Positive feedback fostered longer-term motivation in the participants.
The results indicated that both positive AND negative feedback are helpful in terms of making adjustments and staying committed to the task at hand.  That is something that would be missing if you attempt to tackle an entire goal in one fell swoop.
“Breaking a large project down into smaller tasks allows you to get feedback, make course-corrections, and stay motivated toward the completion of it,” summarizes Dr. Gratias.

Humans Hate Waiting For Results

“As humans, we are not excellent at delayed gratification,” says Dr. Gratias, “We like to see progress, and we like to see progress quickly and often.
You are probably familiar with the satisfied feeling that you get when you are able to cross something off your to-do list. So let us take a quick look at what is happening in your brain when you tick the box or scribble out the task?

At this point your brain releases dopamine—a neurotransmitter that is connected to feelings of pleasure and motivation and you like the way that feels, so you will make your best attempt to repeat that success.

This is something that neuroscientists call self-directed learning, and it is one of the reasons why splitting up large projects is so helpful.

By breaking those long-term projects down, you open the door to experience more frequent rewards (and dopamine rushes!), which inspire you to keep taking steps forward.
“You are wasting opportunities for an adrenaline rush by making a task too big,” shares Dr. Gratias, “We are working with our own desires for reward and feedback by breaking a large task down into its component parts.”
In Conclusion

Productivity is personal and what works well for you might backfire for another person.

When we feel overshadowed by large and daunting projects, the concept of segmenting that assignment into smaller goals is probably the most universally-helpful a productivity tip we can get.

“There are certain characteristics of how humans think and work that are common,” concludes Dr. Gratias, “Breaking down a large task is very useful for people who are feeling overwhelmed or are not making progress on their projects and tasks.”
So the only thing that is left for you to do is take that major project (the one that you have continuously pushed to the bottom of the list), split it up into individual tasks, and get to work.

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