Wednesday, 29 April 2020

We All Have A Choice............

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Earlier today I was reading an article on Personal Development and I was suddenly struck by a thought, a concept that definitely has the power to be a life changer for everyone who reads it, provided that they make a couple of minor changes to the way they live their lives.

The thought was quite simply that each human life consists of approximately 29000 days (which equates to almost 80 years).  Years ago it was written that a man's life was "four score years and ten" and that equates to 90 years.




So I have taken that information and from it drawn the following assumption 

"modern day living has and is continuing to shorten our lives"

On the basis of this it is my belief that it is now more important that ever to take stock of how we live and conduct our lives.  I think that what we do , the actions that we take, the thoughts that we think, the words we say and all of the things that we put into our bodies on a daily basis all have an impact upon us.

You could say that "all of our actions create the thing that we call life!"

So now let us consider some examples of the things that we do on a day to day basis.

We spend out time being bitter about the deal we get or the deal we don't get.
We often become envious of the good fortune of others
We often become greedy eat to excess - grabbing the last piece of cake on the plate even though we may have eaten more than enough already

We may take actions that are spiteful, vengeful, hateful, hurtful - all of these being deliberate and calculated to bring misery and sorrow (or other pain) to the other person who we "think" has a better deal than the one we have.

On the other hand we could take actions that would see us being pleasant and kind.

We could be friendly, happy and do good deeds for others
We may smile honestly at someone whose good fortune has brought them happiness
We could choose to be genuinely pleased when someone tells us their latest piece of news

All of the above are decisions that we can and do take on a day to day, moment by moment basis.

Realistically we make a choice every single moment about how we act (and react) to things around us, and those choices will be responsible for determining the direction of our lives.

So again to underline this

WE CAN CHOOSE to be miserable, envious, greedy, nasty, vengeful 

or alternatively 

WE CAN CHOOSE to be happy, caring, pleasant, joyous, pleasant

and the things we choose will affect the type of life we have

Be bitter, twisted, envious, greedy and we will live a bitter, twisted, envious, greedy life and will probably be very miserable - FACT

Be happy, caring, pleasant, friendly, loving and we will live a happy, caring, pleasant, friendly, loving life  - FACT

So my friends we have a decision to make, are we going to live from now forwards (because that is all that we have)......


A Happy Life or a Miserable Life

THE CHOICE IS YOURS!


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About Dave   I am a coach; speaker; radio presenter and founder of The Blue Sky Company.  I am also a therapist and my therapy work includes music therapy; crystal therapy and Reiki.  Currently I am studying towards a Diploma in Mindfulness

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