Showing posts with label Therapy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Therapy. Show all posts

Wednesday, 24 May 2023

What Is It About Music?


 

       What Is It About

             Music?


Hi Everyone I'm Dave B and thank you for joining me here for this week's blog.


It is possible that I might have mentioned this before in one of my previous posts but that said it is something that I am passionate about:-

MUSIC in its' many forms and styles.

Have you ever wondered why it is that music can be so evocative?

It is true that we only need to put on a piece of music and within a few moments a shift happens and we can soon find ourself somewhere totally different, for some it could be Paris, for some it could be in the middle of a field with a loved one.  For others it could be in the heart of a fairground......

No matter where it takes us, simply sitting and listening for just a few minutes can dissolve all the stresses and strains of every day life and there is no need to move anywhere.

This was brought home to me when I saw a comment that a friend had posted online.  She said that had been listening to piece of music and with just 5 minutes she was:-

"fully relaxed and recharged!"

It was this realisation that prompted me to study for a Music Therapy Diploma and then, once qualified to become a music therapist.

Music has the power to calm the furrowed brow, and a formidable quote from Hans Christian Andersen say it all for me.  He said

"Where words fail, music speaks!"

I whole-heartedly believe that music has no need of language it speaks through emotions.

So next time you feel pressured, stressed, or in need of relaxation instead of turning to questionable substances put on some music, close your eyes and let your imagination take you on a journey of discovery, 

You never know, you might enjoy it!

Such is the power of music!

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About Dave  Personal development coach; music therapist; speaker, radio presenter

                               

"I established my coaching practice a number of years ago and although it has gone through various incarnations the core of Altered Image Coaching has always remained the same - to help and encourage people to live their best lives".
  

Certifications

I hold qualifications in each of the following disciplines:-

Suicide Alertness - awarded 2019

Music Therapy (Diploma) - awarded 2016

Personal Performance Coaching Certificate - awarded 2008

Life Coaching (Honours Diploma) - awarded 2007

Introduction To Counselling Certficate - awarded 1995

Introduction To Employee Investigation Certificate - awarded 1993

Crystal Therapy (Practitioner)

Reiki (Practitioner)

Dementia Awareness

I have also compiled a series of short videos that help provide an 

Introduction To Mindfulness

To find out more about how we might be able to work together or to just dive straight in and book a session, then please click here to send me an email

If you would like to join our Facebook group just follow the link to the new

This page is home to a group of like - minded people (also affectionately known as "The Tribe") and as a thank you for their continued support people who join "The Tribe" often receive exclusive content that I do not post anywhere else.  

Plus the page also provides advanced information about forthcoming projects and events.

So, please spread the word about the blog, the tribe etc. to your friends and family and I hope to see you as a member of our "Tribe" soon.





LINKS

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Wytchwynd Photography:

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Wednesday, 21 December 2022

21/12/22 My Role As A Coach

 



My Role As A Coach (part 1)





Hi, It's DAve
Thank you for joining me on this week's Blog!
I thought that as we approach the New Year, it is a good time to take stock and 
outline my position as a personal development coach/consultant.

So with that in mind, I felt it might be extremely useful to establish what it means – 
and the first thing I thought might be useful, is to define what is Personal 
Development! 
"Personal Development is the pursuit of enhancing your life by way of self
improvement."

As Deepak Chopra, once said “success in life can be defined as the continued 
expression of happiness, and the positive realisation of worthy goals“.

I believe that personal development has no end or completion, it is a process 
that begins at the point of birth and continues throughout your life – we never finish 
growing because there is always more to learn and therefore as you evolve so do 
your personal development goals.

No one in the world will have a personal development journey identical to yours – 
we are always a work in progress, and our goals/path is unique – peoples goals 
may vary greatly – some may seek to get in touch with the “Higher Self” whereas 
others will concentrate on career development.

“The goals are as unique as the person!” 
It all depends on, what is most important to you.

It is a truism that everyone can take part in personal development, because there 
is something for everyone who wishes to improve! It can be simplified to “there are 
only two things needed for success:-

1. desire
2. self-awareness

Put another way, if you have a desire to grow, and you can be honest with yourself 
(about your actions thoughts, weaknesses and strengths) you can create a 
Personal Development plan!

Next time, we will take a look at why you need a personal development plan, and 
begin to take the steps necessary to create one!

I hope that you have a wonderful Yule celebration and I will see you again next 
week.

Best Wishes
DAve x

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About Dave  Personal development coach; a therapist; speaker, radio presenter

                               

"A number of years ago I founded my coaching practice and although it has gone through various incarnations the core of Altered Image Coaching has always remained the same to help and encourage people to live their best lives".
  

Certifications

I hold qualifications in each of the following disciplines:-

Life Coaching (Honours Diploma)

Music Therapy (Diploma)

Crystal Therapy (Practioner)

Reiki (Practitioner)

Dementia Awareness

In addition to the above I am compiling a series of short videos that will provide an 

Introduction To Mindfulness

To find out more about how we could be able to work together or to just dive straight in and book a session, then please send me an email

If you would like to join our Facebook group just follow the link to the new

This page is home to a group of like - minded people (also affectionately known as "The Tribe") and as a thank you for their continued support people who join "The Tribe" often receive exclusive content that I do not post anywhere else.  

Plus the page also provides advanced information about forthcoming projects and events.

So please spread the word about the blog, the tribe etc. to your friends and family and I hope to see you as a member of our "Tribe" soon.





LINKS

Website:

Wytchwynd Photography:

Pinterest:


Workbook

  The 2022 Personal + Lifestyle Development Coaching Workbook is now retired and no longer available.  

Keep an eye open for the 2023 Workbook (7) 
It HAS STARTED TO FORM!


Please email: devonlifecoach@mail.com for more information



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Have a fantastic day, live a life of Passion and Power.

And again, above all remember

"Don't Predict The Future - CREATE IT!"

DAve x



Wednesday, 14 December 2022

14/07/22 Turning The Page!

 


Hello it's DAve 

Welcome to the revamped Altered Image Coaching blog!

Fairly recently I decided that I needed to get back into coaching real people because I have spent far too long talking around the subject instead of actually doing it!

With that said here is a short exercise that is designed to help you to identify and come to terms with personal weaknesses and help you to learn to “love” them. 

The truth about weaknesses is that they are always subjective, they only become real if (or when) they get in our way and have an effect on what we want to do.

Life in this world finds us tending to focus on what could be improved about ourselves rather than looking at the things about us that are already great. 

The exercise below can help you to change the way you see these “weaknesses”.

So without further ado let us dive into the the exercise:-

Firstly - identify and write down 3 things that you most dislike about yourself (the weaknesses)

1.

2. 

3.

Secondly - identify two ways that each weakness can be useful or serve a particular purpose.  If you find yourself stuck then try coming up with an extremely unlikely or unusual situation - let your sense of humour run wild!!!!

Now having done this 

Thirdly - write down the things that you have learned about yourself by taking part in this exercise.

Have a wonderful weekend and I will see you all again next week

Best wishes

DAve x

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About Dave  Personal development coach; a therapist; speaker, radio presenter

                               

"A number of years ago I founded my coaching practice and although it has gone through various incarnations the core of Altered Image Coaching has always remained the same to help and encourage people to live their best lives".
  

Certifications

I hold qualifications in each of the following disciplines:-

Life Coaching (Honours Diploma)

Music Therapy (Diploma)

Crystal Therapy (Practioner)

Reiki (Practitioner)

Dementia Awareness

In addition to the above I am compiling a series of short videos that will provide an 

Introduction To Mindfulness

To find out more about how we could be able to work together or to just dive straight in and book a session, then please send me an email

If you would like to join our Facebook group just follow the link to the new

This page is home to a group of like - minded people (also affectionately known as "The Tribe") and as a thank you for their continued support people who join "The Tribe" often receive exclusive content that I do not post anywhere else.  

Plus the page also provides advanced information about forthcoming projects and events.

So please spread the word about the blog, the tribe etc. to your friends and family and I hope to see you as a member of our "Tribe" soon.





LINKS

Website:

Wytchwynd Photography:

Pinterest:


Workbook

  The 2022 Personal + Lifestyle Development Coaching Workbook is now retired and no longer available.  

Keep an eye open for the 2023 Workbook (7) 
It HAS STARTED TO FORM!


Please email: devonlifecoach@mail.com for more information



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Subscribing To The Blog

To subscribe to the blog please go over to the right hand side of this page and click the button that says “Follow”.  Once you do that you will be added to our list of subscribers.

Feel free to share this and other posts with your friends and associates


Have a fantastic day, live a life of Passion and Power.

And again, above all remember

"Don't Predict The Future - CREATE IT!"

DAve x

Sunday, 19 June 2022

Timeline Therapy - An Introduction

 Timeline Therapy


Timeline Therapy (TLT) is a technique that I highly recommend! 

This form of therapy allows you to (symbolically) go back into your past to issues that cause you to act in a self-limiting way, take the learnings, and move on by "dropping" the negative emotions.

I know that this sounds crazy, but from what I have read it really seems to work. However I will be doing some more research and then I will (if possible) write a more in-depth article soon, but in the meantime using these notes should help you to at least give it a try. 

About Timeline Therapy

Generally speaking we tend to view and use a linear structure for time. People store and encode time differently – i.e. for some of us we imagine the future to be in front of us, for others it is to the side, or it could be above us.

Some people are “in time” and others are “through time”.

People who turn up on time, plan well, schedule events and carry diaries are “through time”. This is typically represented by a timeline going from left to right in front of them.

People who turn up late, are absorbed in the moment, and are not aware of the passing of time are “in time”. This is typically represented by a timeline flowing behind them to in front of them. (I'm very much "in time!")

When working with TLT, we should trust our UNCONSCIOUS to give us the right answer as to where our timeline is, and not put it where we “think” it should be consciously.


Step One – Elicit the Timeline

You can use the following script to find out how the person stores time.

Do this with the client awake – not in a trance – to increase unconscious trust and co-operation.

 “If I were to ask your unconscious mind, where your past is, and where your future is, I have an idea that you might say, “it's from right to left, or front to back, or up to down, or in some direction from you in relation to your body.

 It's not your unconscious concept that I'm interested in, it's your unconscious. So, if I were to ask your unconscious mind where is your past, which way would you point?”

 Andwhat direction would you point if I asked your unconscious mind, where's your future?”


Step Two – First test of elicitation

Now, be aware of the directions that you pointed to. Do you notice that they imply a line?

If no: Could you notice that?

If still no: Is your past arranged by location, i.e. where you lived?

If yes: how would it look if, for the purposes of this exercise, it was stretched out in a line?

 

Now I will ask you to float up above the line. Can you just float up above your timeline and see it, or feel like it would feel to float up above your timeline?

Make sure you are looking through your own eyes, and are looking directly (or feeling) your timeline.

Now, remaining above your timeline just float back over the past. (pause). Are you there?

Good, now float back towards now and stop there  

Are you there? Good.

Now keep facing towards the future, and float up higher and further back - over the past.

And now, float out above your future. Are you there?

Next, float up higher!

Float SO HIGH that it makes your timeline seem like it is an inch long.

Good, float back to now, and float down into the now and come back into the room.

NB - Be sure to run through this script many times BEFORE attempting any TLT – and always elicit the timeline first!

Step 3 – Discovering the Root Cause

We experience problems and negative emotions much more than we need to!

Emotions started at some point in your life. So if we can go to some point  before the first event and amend that, there can be a massive impact.

So, we need to go back to the original event. 

How to experience a bit of the emotion now.

ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS UNCONSCIOUSLY! This process requires you to TRUST your unconscious mind AND follow the instructions. That's it!

1) Experience a memory of the negative emotion now (do this to light up the neurology)

Ask: Is it totally alright for your unconscious mind to release this (emotion / limiting decision / belief) today and for you to have a conscious experience that it is gone today?

 

2) Find the first event:

Ask your unconscious mind: what is the root cause of the problem, the first event which, when disconnected, will cause the problem to disappear?

If you were to know, was it before, during or after your birth?

If it was before?  Was it In the womb or before?

Womb? What month?

Before? Was it as past life or passed down to you genealogically?

Past life: How many lifetimes ago?

Genealogically: How many generations ago? 

After: If you were to know, what age were you?

1) Just find your timeline, and float up above your timeline, and over the past, facing the past, until the event is down below you and in front of you and when you get there notice the event. Let me know when you're there.

2) Now, float directly up above the event so you are looking down on the event. Ask your unconscious mind what positive learnings do you need to take from the event, the learning of which will allow you to let go of the emotion easily and effortlessly. Next, ask your unconscious mind to preserve the learnings so that if you need them in the future, they'll be there. Let me know when you have the learnings.

3) Now, float back up above your TL, back over the past so you are high above the event and well before the event, and are looking towards now. Make sure you are well before any of the chain of events that led to that event/ And ask yourself, “now, where are the emotions? Have they gone? Have they all gone?

4) Float down inside the event so you are looking through your own eyes, and check on the emotions. Are they there? Or have they disappeared Now!! Good, go float back above the TL well before that event. (If some emotions remain: Ask your unconscious mind if there is an earlier event than this one? (And then repeat previous steps for that)

5) Now, come back to the now above your TL only as quickly as you can let go of all of the (name the emotion) on the events all the way back to now, follow the same steps and float above the TL well before the beginning of each event, preserve the learnings, and let go of the (emotion) all the way back to now. When done, float back into the now, and come back to the room.

6) Test: Can you remember any event in the past where you used to be able to feel the old emotion, and go back now and notice if you can feel it, or you may find that you cannot. How do you feel differently? Good, come back to the now.

7) Future place: I want you to go out to a time in the future which if it had happened in the past, you would have felt inappropriate or unwarranted (emotion), and notice if you can find that old emotion, or you may feel that you cannot. How do you feel differently?

OK? Good, come back to the now.

Take some time to settle down, always knowing that you are perfectly safe, perfectly secure and perfectly at peace.

perfectly safe, perfectly secure and perfectly at peace.

perfectly safe, perfectly secure and perfectly at peace.

DAve.

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About Dave   I am a personal development coach; a therapist; speaker; and  radio presenter.  A number of years ago I founded my coaching practice and although it has gone through various incarnations the core of Altered Image Coaching has always remained the same to help and encourage people to live their best lives.  

Certifications

I hold qualifications in each of the following disciplines:-

Life Coaching (Honours Diploma)

Music Therapy (Diploma)

Crystal Therapy (Practioner)

Reiki (Practitioner)

Dementia Awareness

In addition to the above I am compiling a series of short videos that will provide an 

Introduction To Mindfulness

To find out more about how we could be able to work together or to just dive straight in and book a session, then please send me an email

If you would like to join our Facebook group just follow the link to the new

This page is home to a group of like - minded people (also affectionately known as "The Tribe") and as a thank you for their continued support people who join "The Tribe" often receive exclusive content that I do not post anywhere else.  

Plus the page also provides advanced information about forthcoming projects and events.

So please spread the word about the blog, the tribe etc. to your friends and family and I hope to see you as a member of our "Tribe" soon.





LINKS

Website:

Wytchwynd Photography:

Pinterest:


Workbook

       The 2022 Personal + Lifestyle Development Coaching Workbook is now available at a very reasonable £10 / copy 
email: devonlifecoach@mail.com for payment and download information



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Please email devonlifecoach@mail.com if you would like to purchase (for a very reasonable £8.50) the link that will let you download a copy of our out going workbook:- 

                         The 2021 Altered Image Coaching 90-Day Workbook 




Subscribing To The Blog

To subscribe to the blog please go over to the right hand side of this page and click the button that says “Follow”.  Once you do that you will be added to our list of subscribers.

Feel free to share this and other posts with your friends and associates


Have a fantastic day, live a life of Passion and Power.

And again, above all remember

"Don't Predict The Future - CREATE IT!"



15/11/23 Making My Way Back…….

  Hello and Merry Meet After what seems to be an absolute eternity I feel that I am now getting into a position where I can begin to reboot ...