Showing posts with label events. Show all posts
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Sunday, 19 June 2022

Timeline Therapy - An Introduction

 Timeline Therapy


Timeline Therapy (TLT) is a technique that I highly recommend! 

This form of therapy allows you to (symbolically) go back into your past to issues that cause you to act in a self-limiting way, take the learnings, and move on by "dropping" the negative emotions.

I know that this sounds crazy, but from what I have read it really seems to work. However I will be doing some more research and then I will (if possible) write a more in-depth article soon, but in the meantime using these notes should help you to at least give it a try. 

About Timeline Therapy

Generally speaking we tend to view and use a linear structure for time. People store and encode time differently – i.e. for some of us we imagine the future to be in front of us, for others it is to the side, or it could be above us.

Some people are “in time” and others are “through time”.

People who turn up on time, plan well, schedule events and carry diaries are “through time”. This is typically represented by a timeline going from left to right in front of them.

People who turn up late, are absorbed in the moment, and are not aware of the passing of time are “in time”. This is typically represented by a timeline flowing behind them to in front of them. (I'm very much "in time!")

When working with TLT, we should trust our UNCONSCIOUS to give us the right answer as to where our timeline is, and not put it where we “think” it should be consciously.


Step One – Elicit the Timeline

You can use the following script to find out how the person stores time.

Do this with the client awake – not in a trance – to increase unconscious trust and co-operation.

 “If I were to ask your unconscious mind, where your past is, and where your future is, I have an idea that you might say, “it's from right to left, or front to back, or up to down, or in some direction from you in relation to your body.

 It's not your unconscious concept that I'm interested in, it's your unconscious. So, if I were to ask your unconscious mind where is your past, which way would you point?”

 Andwhat direction would you point if I asked your unconscious mind, where's your future?”


Step Two – First test of elicitation

Now, be aware of the directions that you pointed to. Do you notice that they imply a line?

If no: Could you notice that?

If still no: Is your past arranged by location, i.e. where you lived?

If yes: how would it look if, for the purposes of this exercise, it was stretched out in a line?

 

Now I will ask you to float up above the line. Can you just float up above your timeline and see it, or feel like it would feel to float up above your timeline?

Make sure you are looking through your own eyes, and are looking directly (or feeling) your timeline.

Now, remaining above your timeline just float back over the past. (pause). Are you there?

Good, now float back towards now and stop there  

Are you there? Good.

Now keep facing towards the future, and float up higher and further back - over the past.

And now, float out above your future. Are you there?

Next, float up higher!

Float SO HIGH that it makes your timeline seem like it is an inch long.

Good, float back to now, and float down into the now and come back into the room.

NB - Be sure to run through this script many times BEFORE attempting any TLT – and always elicit the timeline first!

Step 3 – Discovering the Root Cause

We experience problems and negative emotions much more than we need to!

Emotions started at some point in your life. So if we can go to some point  before the first event and amend that, there can be a massive impact.

So, we need to go back to the original event. 

How to experience a bit of the emotion now.

ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS UNCONSCIOUSLY! This process requires you to TRUST your unconscious mind AND follow the instructions. That's it!

1) Experience a memory of the negative emotion now (do this to light up the neurology)

Ask: Is it totally alright for your unconscious mind to release this (emotion / limiting decision / belief) today and for you to have a conscious experience that it is gone today?

 

2) Find the first event:

Ask your unconscious mind: what is the root cause of the problem, the first event which, when disconnected, will cause the problem to disappear?

If you were to know, was it before, during or after your birth?

If it was before?  Was it In the womb or before?

Womb? What month?

Before? Was it as past life or passed down to you genealogically?

Past life: How many lifetimes ago?

Genealogically: How many generations ago? 

After: If you were to know, what age were you?

1) Just find your timeline, and float up above your timeline, and over the past, facing the past, until the event is down below you and in front of you and when you get there notice the event. Let me know when you're there.

2) Now, float directly up above the event so you are looking down on the event. Ask your unconscious mind what positive learnings do you need to take from the event, the learning of which will allow you to let go of the emotion easily and effortlessly. Next, ask your unconscious mind to preserve the learnings so that if you need them in the future, they'll be there. Let me know when you have the learnings.

3) Now, float back up above your TL, back over the past so you are high above the event and well before the event, and are looking towards now. Make sure you are well before any of the chain of events that led to that event/ And ask yourself, “now, where are the emotions? Have they gone? Have they all gone?

4) Float down inside the event so you are looking through your own eyes, and check on the emotions. Are they there? Or have they disappeared Now!! Good, go float back above the TL well before that event. (If some emotions remain: Ask your unconscious mind if there is an earlier event than this one? (And then repeat previous steps for that)

5) Now, come back to the now above your TL only as quickly as you can let go of all of the (name the emotion) on the events all the way back to now, follow the same steps and float above the TL well before the beginning of each event, preserve the learnings, and let go of the (emotion) all the way back to now. When done, float back into the now, and come back to the room.

6) Test: Can you remember any event in the past where you used to be able to feel the old emotion, and go back now and notice if you can feel it, or you may find that you cannot. How do you feel differently? Good, come back to the now.

7) Future place: I want you to go out to a time in the future which if it had happened in the past, you would have felt inappropriate or unwarranted (emotion), and notice if you can find that old emotion, or you may feel that you cannot. How do you feel differently?

OK? Good, come back to the now.

Take some time to settle down, always knowing that you are perfectly safe, perfectly secure and perfectly at peace.

perfectly safe, perfectly secure and perfectly at peace.

perfectly safe, perfectly secure and perfectly at peace.

DAve.

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About Dave   I am a personal development coach; a therapist; speaker; and  radio presenter.  A number of years ago I founded my coaching practice and although it has gone through various incarnations the core of Altered Image Coaching has always remained the same to help and encourage people to live their best lives.  

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Wednesday, 2 September 2020

Wanting More......





        WANTING                                                         MORE.....








Hi it's Dave and today I thought I would bring the life coach within me into the spotlight to talk a little bit about the concept of how you can take charge of your own life.

I have a friend who once said to me that she was feeling really down because (and this is a statement I have used as a title for a book in the past) "It's My Life But Someone Else Leads It!"

What she did not know at the time, was that the girl standing in front of me was the sum total of all the choices that she had made in her life up until that day.  I said to her that the challenge was this "anything that is not working in your life should be looked at closely" and I suggested that she asked herself "Can I grow with this and in this situation?"

I felt that she was suffering something called "Deficiency Motivation" because I had often heard her saying "I don't like where I am" and "I don't like what I have done" and "I can't do this well" the result of this thinking was that it was challenging her personal and even business development.

The natural outcome of "Deficiency Motivation" is to make an assumption that something is wrong and then to attempt to fix it - however the reality is that you will never be able to "fix it".  You will always find that you are always trying to be somewhere else or doing something different but the logical outcome is that you start to suffer with something called Wanting More!

As an example of this let us consider that you want to have a bank balance of  £100,000 (or $) and so you set that as your goal and then work very hard towards getting that sum of money.  It is a struggle and you constantly deny yourself things along the way.  

Eventually you reach your goal and you have your 100,000 (£ or $) in the bank.  Over the years this aim has been your life, it is all you know, it has become who you are BUT once you get there you find that it is not enough!

A no limit person never operates from a place of deficiency or lack and they never say "I don't have enough"

In truth you are never going to get enough because quite simply - you are enough already!

So what of my friend?...........she adapted her thinking, changed her patterns and is now running a successful and profitable business working from home and is very happy with both her life and the work that she is doing.

DAve x


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About Dave   I am a personal development coach; a therapist; speaker; and  radio presenter.  A number of years ago I founded The Blue Sky Company to enable me to develop my work in more ways.  In addition I am also a therapist and my therapy work includes music therapy; crystal therapy, Reiki and I am working towards a Diploma in Mindfulness.

If you would like to know more about my therapy work etc, then please email me.

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By way of a thank you for their continued support Tribe Members regularly receive exclusive content that I do not post anywhere else.  The page also provides advanced information about forthcoming projects and events.

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Wednesday, 26 August 2020

I Feel Very Honoured!

All I can say is WOW!

Last Friday (21st August) I had the great pleasure of meeting a lady whose work I have admired for a great many years.   She is a great motivator, and amazing speaker and a fiesty redhead.

Nicky and Dave at Brundle's, Woolacombe

Nicky Pattinson (the lady concerned), her sister and I went to Brundle's Restaurant in Woolacombe and had a lovely brunch, plenty of spirited conversation and a thoroughly pleasant hour and a half.  We chatted about all sorts of things and discovered quite a lot of common ground.

So much has been said about Nicky that I doubt that there is anything original I could say about her.  

She is an Advanced Business Connection expert, an event speaker and more recently a "zoomer"

Her list of clients makes fascinating reading, from leading supermarket brands to high end perfume retailers, from hotel chains to gift stores and motor part retailers.

So for her to suggest that we met for coffee (which ended up as a Breakfast Brunch) actually made my flabber be gasted (ie flabbergasted)

To learn more about this amazing lady visit her website www.nickypattinson.com

Thank you for reading, all the very best

DAve x
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To order a copy of the workbook please navigate to the Shopping Page

Business Developer / Coach Emma Kersey said this about the 2018 Workbook

"Sorry I didn't get round to fully utilizing the e-book but please know that just reading it helped massively........... just needed a push and the book did that so thank you"


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About Dave   I am a personal development coach; a therapist; speaker; and  radio presenter.  A number of years ago I founded The Blue Sky Company to enable me to develop my work in more ways.  In addition I am also a therapist and my therapy work includes music therapy; crystal therapy, Reiki and I am working towards a Diploma in Mindfulness.

If you would like to know more about my therapy work etc, then please email me.

If you would like to join our Facebook group just follow the link below to the Under Blue Skies page. The page is home to a group of like - minded people (affectionately knows as "the tribe").

By way of a thank you for their continued support Tribe Members regularly receive exclusive content that I do not post anywhere else.  The page also provides advanced information about forthcoming projects and events.

So please spread the word about the blog, the tribe etc. to your friends and family and I hope to see you as a member of our "Tribe" soon.


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Thursday, 2 July 2020

LET THE MUSIC PLAY!

Thursday 2nd July 2020



Hi everyone this post is written from a personal standpoint

I know that the current situation is adversely affecting many people around the World.  


However there is one aspect of it that directly affects me and many of my friends and colleagues around the world so I feel that the time has come to lend my voice to that of the others and call for a review of a policy that has impacted severely on many of the people involved in the ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTRY.


HOW CAN THIS BE?

For some reason we are not deemed relevant when it comes to support from Central / Local Government despite a direct question being asked of the Chancellor of The Exchequer in open Parliament at the beginning of the Coronavirus situation in the UK.


The Chancellor was asked whether a company supplying power generators to the event industry would come under the scope of the guidelines and be eligible for support by way of rate relief.  The response was quite simple "Yes they would be eligible!"


I know that several local authorities have chosen to ignore that comment and refused to support businesses trading within their areas - by using many varied excuses such as "you don't have a dedicated showroom" or "you are not open to the public" or simply "you do not meet the criteria set down"


Now we have seen in the past 24 hours announcements that 2 large theatres are about to close their doors.  One of the reasons given is that the Social Distancing regulations mean that opening is simply not a viable option and without being able to open there is no income.


And just today I have seen the following 


"Live music alone added £4.5bn to the economy in 2019 and supported 210,000 jobs across the UK.


Up to 50% of the live music workforce is facing unemployment bringing with it a catastrophic loss of skills.

The arenas are set to lose approximately 5 million visitors as a direct result of Covid 19.


Music festivals in the UK support around 85,000 jobs and with the summer effectively cancelled most of these events are facing collapse and the people looking at unemployment.


So this one section of the entertainment industry alone could see about 300,000 people claiming off the state".


How much is this all going to cost unless something is done to breathe life back into our event industry?



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About Dave   I am a personal development coach; a therapist; speaker; and  radio presenter.  A number of years ago I founded The Blue Sky Company to enable me to develop my work in more ways.  In addition I am also a therapist and my therapy work includes music therapy; crystal therapy, Reiki and I am working towards a Diploma in Mindfulness.

If you would like to know more about my therapy work etc, then please email me.

If you would like to join our Facebook group just follow the link below to the Under Blue Skies page. The page is home to a group of like - minded people (affectionately knows as "the tribe").

By way of a thank you for their continued support Tribe Members regularly receive exclusive content that I do not post anywhere else.  The page also provides advanced information about forthcoming projects and events.

So please spread the word about the blog, the tribe etc. to your friends and family and I hope to see you as a member of our "Tribe" soon.


Under Blue Skies
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Join Group
This group aims to concentrate primarily on Personal Change although at times there may be elements of Business Change or a cross over point somewhere...
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Have a fantastic day, live a life of Passion and Power.

And above all

Don't Predict The Future - CREATE IT!

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