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Sunday, 19 June 2022

Timeline Therapy - An Introduction

 Timeline Therapy


Timeline Therapy (TLT) is a technique that I highly recommend! 

This form of therapy allows you to (symbolically) go back into your past to issues that cause you to act in a self-limiting way, take the learnings, and move on by "dropping" the negative emotions.

I know that this sounds crazy, but from what I have read it really seems to work. However I will be doing some more research and then I will (if possible) write a more in-depth article soon, but in the meantime using these notes should help you to at least give it a try. 

About Timeline Therapy

Generally speaking we tend to view and use a linear structure for time. People store and encode time differently – i.e. for some of us we imagine the future to be in front of us, for others it is to the side, or it could be above us.

Some people are “in time” and others are “through time”.

People who turn up on time, plan well, schedule events and carry diaries are “through time”. This is typically represented by a timeline going from left to right in front of them.

People who turn up late, are absorbed in the moment, and are not aware of the passing of time are “in time”. This is typically represented by a timeline flowing behind them to in front of them. (I'm very much "in time!")

When working with TLT, we should trust our UNCONSCIOUS to give us the right answer as to where our timeline is, and not put it where we “think” it should be consciously.


Step One – Elicit the Timeline

You can use the following script to find out how the person stores time.

Do this with the client awake – not in a trance – to increase unconscious trust and co-operation.

 “If I were to ask your unconscious mind, where your past is, and where your future is, I have an idea that you might say, “it's from right to left, or front to back, or up to down, or in some direction from you in relation to your body.

 It's not your unconscious concept that I'm interested in, it's your unconscious. So, if I were to ask your unconscious mind where is your past, which way would you point?”

 Andwhat direction would you point if I asked your unconscious mind, where's your future?”


Step Two – First test of elicitation

Now, be aware of the directions that you pointed to. Do you notice that they imply a line?

If no: Could you notice that?

If still no: Is your past arranged by location, i.e. where you lived?

If yes: how would it look if, for the purposes of this exercise, it was stretched out in a line?

 

Now I will ask you to float up above the line. Can you just float up above your timeline and see it, or feel like it would feel to float up above your timeline?

Make sure you are looking through your own eyes, and are looking directly (or feeling) your timeline.

Now, remaining above your timeline just float back over the past. (pause). Are you there?

Good, now float back towards now and stop there  

Are you there? Good.

Now keep facing towards the future, and float up higher and further back - over the past.

And now, float out above your future. Are you there?

Next, float up higher!

Float SO HIGH that it makes your timeline seem like it is an inch long.

Good, float back to now, and float down into the now and come back into the room.

NB - Be sure to run through this script many times BEFORE attempting any TLT – and always elicit the timeline first!

Step 3 – Discovering the Root Cause

We experience problems and negative emotions much more than we need to!

Emotions started at some point in your life. So if we can go to some point  before the first event and amend that, there can be a massive impact.

So, we need to go back to the original event. 

How to experience a bit of the emotion now.

ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS UNCONSCIOUSLY! This process requires you to TRUST your unconscious mind AND follow the instructions. That's it!

1) Experience a memory of the negative emotion now (do this to light up the neurology)

Ask: Is it totally alright for your unconscious mind to release this (emotion / limiting decision / belief) today and for you to have a conscious experience that it is gone today?

 

2) Find the first event:

Ask your unconscious mind: what is the root cause of the problem, the first event which, when disconnected, will cause the problem to disappear?

If you were to know, was it before, during or after your birth?

If it was before?  Was it In the womb or before?

Womb? What month?

Before? Was it as past life or passed down to you genealogically?

Past life: How many lifetimes ago?

Genealogically: How many generations ago? 

After: If you were to know, what age were you?

1) Just find your timeline, and float up above your timeline, and over the past, facing the past, until the event is down below you and in front of you and when you get there notice the event. Let me know when you're there.

2) Now, float directly up above the event so you are looking down on the event. Ask your unconscious mind what positive learnings do you need to take from the event, the learning of which will allow you to let go of the emotion easily and effortlessly. Next, ask your unconscious mind to preserve the learnings so that if you need them in the future, they'll be there. Let me know when you have the learnings.

3) Now, float back up above your TL, back over the past so you are high above the event and well before the event, and are looking towards now. Make sure you are well before any of the chain of events that led to that event/ And ask yourself, “now, where are the emotions? Have they gone? Have they all gone?

4) Float down inside the event so you are looking through your own eyes, and check on the emotions. Are they there? Or have they disappeared Now!! Good, go float back above the TL well before that event. (If some emotions remain: Ask your unconscious mind if there is an earlier event than this one? (And then repeat previous steps for that)

5) Now, come back to the now above your TL only as quickly as you can let go of all of the (name the emotion) on the events all the way back to now, follow the same steps and float above the TL well before the beginning of each event, preserve the learnings, and let go of the (emotion) all the way back to now. When done, float back into the now, and come back to the room.

6) Test: Can you remember any event in the past where you used to be able to feel the old emotion, and go back now and notice if you can feel it, or you may find that you cannot. How do you feel differently? Good, come back to the now.

7) Future place: I want you to go out to a time in the future which if it had happened in the past, you would have felt inappropriate or unwarranted (emotion), and notice if you can find that old emotion, or you may feel that you cannot. How do you feel differently?

OK? Good, come back to the now.

Take some time to settle down, always knowing that you are perfectly safe, perfectly secure and perfectly at peace.

perfectly safe, perfectly secure and perfectly at peace.

perfectly safe, perfectly secure and perfectly at peace.

DAve.

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About Dave   I am a personal development coach; a therapist; speaker; and  radio presenter.  A number of years ago I founded my coaching practice and although it has gone through various incarnations the core of Altered Image Coaching has always remained the same to help and encourage people to live their best lives.  

Certifications

I hold qualifications in each of the following disciplines:-

Life Coaching (Honours Diploma)

Music Therapy (Diploma)

Crystal Therapy (Practioner)

Reiki (Practitioner)

Dementia Awareness

In addition to the above I am compiling a series of short videos that will provide an 

Introduction To Mindfulness

To find out more about how we could be able to work together or to just dive straight in and book a session, then please send me an email

If you would like to join our Facebook group just follow the link to the new

This page is home to a group of like - minded people (also affectionately known as "The Tribe") and as a thank you for their continued support people who join "The Tribe" often receive exclusive content that I do not post anywhere else.  

Plus the page also provides advanced information about forthcoming projects and events.

So please spread the word about the blog, the tribe etc. to your friends and family and I hope to see you as a member of our "Tribe" soon.





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Workbook

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email: devonlifecoach@mail.com for payment and download information



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Have a fantastic day, live a life of Passion and Power.

And again, above all remember

"Don't Predict The Future - CREATE IT!"



Tuesday, 30 March 2021

A New 30 - Day Challenge

 


 A New 30 - Day Challenge


Hey! It's Dave. 

This week I have decided to issue a bit of a challenge to my readers it is actually based on a Personality Exercise I took about 2 years ago.  

Naturally, having done this myself I would really like you all to do it as well and at the end feedback anything you discovered about yourself during the exercise.


Simply answer each question truthfully and jot down your answers.  You can share the insights (publicly or privately) if you so wish.  But even if you don't share, please leave a comment to tell us what you have discovered about yourself at the end of the questions:-

So here goes

1.  What weird things do you do when you are alone?

2.  How have you changed during the past 2 years?

3.  What kind of person attracts you?

4.  What do you prefer to wear to bed?

5.  Name 5 things that irritate you about the opposite sex?


6.  Name 5 things that irritate you about your own sex?


7.  What is your opinion about checking on people?

8.  What are your current worries?

9.  When was your last kiss?

10. What are your thoughts on drugs & alcohol?

11. Name something you want to say to an ex!

12. Describe a date you would love to go on


13. Spill the beans - Something disgusting that you do?

14. The best thing to happen to you this week is............

15. What am you proud of in your personality?

16. What scares you?

17. Something that never fails to make you feel better?

18. When was your last argument?

19. Something that you can't get over?

20. 3 things about you that people don't really expect?


21. What if........?

22. Something you want to say to someone close to you?

23. Something you want to say to a friend?

24. 10 ways to win your heart? 


25. If you follow a religion what faith are you?

26. Something you like about your brother / sister?

27. What is your happy month and why?

28. What has changed for you significantly this month?

29. Where do you see yourself at this time next year?

30. When did you last say "I Love You!"?


Thank you for taking part and I hope that you got something out of it.

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About Dave   I am a personal development coach; a therapist; speaker; and  radio presenter.  A number of years ago I founded my coaching practice and although it has gone through various incarnations the core of Altered Image Coaching has always remained the same to help and encourage people to live their best lives.  

Certifications

I hold qualifications in the following disciplines:-

Life Coaching (Honours Diploma)

Music Therapy (Diploma)

Crystal Therapy (Practioner)

Reiki (Practitioner)

Dementia Awareness

plus I am compiling a series of short videos that will provide an 

Introduction To Mindfulness

To enquire / book a session, then please email me.

If you would like to join our Facebook group just follow the link below to the Altered Image Coaching page. The page is home to a group of like - minded people (affectionately knows as "the tribe").

By way of a thank you for their continued support Tribe Members regularly receive exclusive content that I do not post anywhere else.  The page also provides advanced information about forthcoming projects and events.

So please spread the word about the blog, the tribe etc. to your friends and family and I hope to see you as a member of our "Tribe" soon.





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Wytchwynd Photography:

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Have a fantastic day, live a life of Passion and Power.

And above all

Don't Predict The Future - CREATE IT!

Tuesday, 2 March 2021

The Key Is Stuck!

 




         THE KEY IS STUCK!


How often do you try to get somewhere in your life, you have the key but no matter how hard you try it will not open the lock and it simply gets stuck?





I speak from experience here because I have been there! I studied the courses, took the trainings, worked the practicals and passed the exams and yet each time I tried “the key would not open the lock”

I became frustrated, suffered paralysing self doubt, I banged my head against the proverbial brick wall but none of it would “open the lock”

But then I discovered that the key was too BIG to fit the lock. Yes it was the right shape and all the notches were in the correct order but it was just too fat!

So what did I do with this discovery?

I started a change - I dropped some of the things that I was personally least interested in, from my offering - I rebranded slightly and simplified.

The nett result was that I am now busier than I have ever been, my post reads have increased many times over and now I have bookings coming in again.

So maybe, just maybe, if things are not performing the way you would like them to your key is too big for the lock!


Have a fantastic day and live a life of Power and Passion.

DAve x

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About Dave   I am a personal development coach; a therapist; speaker; and  radio presenter.  A number of years ago I founded The Blue Sky Company to enable me to develop my work in more ways.  In addition I am also a therapist and that work includes music therapy; crystal therapy; Reiki and I will soon be offering an introduction to Mindfulness.


If you would like to know more about my therapy work etc, then please email me.

If you would like to join our Facebook group just follow the link below to the Under Blue Skies page. The page is home to a group of like - minded people (affectionately knows as "the tribe").

By way of a thank you for their continued support Tribe Members regularly receive exclusive content that I do not post anywhere else.  The page also provides advanced information about forthcoming projects and events.

So please spread the word about the blog, the tribe etc. to your friends and family and I hope to see you as a member of our "Tribe" soon.


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Website:

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To subscribe to the blog please go over to the right hand side of this page and click the button that says “Follow”.  Once you do that you will be added to our list of subscribers.

Feel free to share this and other posts with your friends and associates

Inspirational Phrases

In addition to the above I can send out a daily email containing an Inspirational Phrase. 

To ensure that we comply with the relevant regulations this is a subscription only service and to  be included please send an email using “add me” as the subject to:- 


Once you have subscribed the phrases will be delivered to your mail box every day at no cost to you whatsoever.

Have a fantastic day, live a life of Passion and Power.

And above all

Don't Predict The Future - CREATE IT!

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