Wednesday, 20 May 2020

Wouldn't It Be Great If..........?


Welcome to the blog.  Today I am going to do something that is out of the ordinary, I am going to ask a very specific question but I don't want you to answer it, just think about what I am saying.

"Wouldn't it be great if you signed up to follow me because that way you would never miss another post of mine?"

So thank you for being here this week and I hope that you will be as amazed as I was with what has happened recently.

The first time I heard the phrase "Wouldn't it be cool if...........?" was during a one to one video interview between Chase Jarvis and Marie Forleo.

I have to confess that the words hit me like a thunderbolt!  Immediately I saw a doorway into the world of possibility opening wide in front of me

I started to think things like:-

"Wouldn't it be great if I had some international coaching clients?"


"Wouldn't it be great if I had an Aston Martin?"


"Wouldn't it be great I was able to make friends with some of the people who have coached me over the years?"

And the answer to each one of those questions was a resounding "YES"

It seemed that I had stumbled on a potentially life changing question, but that was only the first part of the concept, because I realised that there was a key to making these things happen.  That key was vital to turning aspirations into reality.

Quite simply - I HAD TO TAKE ACTION!

I had realised that this way of thinking (the idea) had the power to change everything in my life provided that I would accept the concept and secondly take action towards those changes, let the idea become part of my reality.

I had to adopt a way of thinking that said I was no longer going to make do with "Second Best".  I realised that if I was going to succeed in achieving these things I had to raise my game.

So what happened next was so obvious and yet I had been missing it for the past 20+ years.

In 1995 I attended a weekend training in London (at that time this was the only official course available for people who wanted to train to be a coach) One of the trainers on that course "took me under his wing" so to speak and at the end of the training when I graduated he shook me by the hand and said that he had been very impressed with the way I had dealt with issues that had been presented to me.

This trainer has a long and successful history of coaching and goal setting and he often travels around the world teaching how to create strategies for achieving results.  So I found his website and then his email address and contacted him.

He responded very quickly and welcomed my enquiry - he said that it would be great if I joined his course that was specifically designed to "train the trainers" and he offered me an opportunity to become one of his representatives.

I thanked him for his generosity but explained to him that I had my own clients and that I would (provided he agreed) like to use the system as an "add on" to what I do.  He was really understanding and as a result offered me a free place on his series of webinars in order that I could refresh my knowledge of his goal planning systems.

He and I now chat regularly on Social Media and we are currently looking to a face to face meeting in the not too distant future.

But that story does not end there -

About 8 weeks ago (around the start of April 2020) I found out that said gentleman was friends with a lady who has a very unique style of delivering business development work.  A lady whose methods have seen her taking a market stall from £75,000 a year turnover to a staggering  £2,000,000  in a couple of years.  She is now providing coaching to large companies around the world.

I first stumbled across her work about 10 years ago and since that first encounter I had held a wish that I would be able to meet her, but I thought that it would never really amount to anything.

I passed a comment about seeing that this lady and my goal setting trainer were friends and the response I received floored me, he said "why don't you send her a message, tell her that you and I are friends and invite her to accept you as a friend.  I am sure she will respond because she is very approachable"

So I did this and she accepted!

Taking that step, albeit nervously, has led to many conversations some of which have revealed that we have a number of things in common, one being that her sister lives about 8 miles from my house in North Devon and that she lives about 8 miles from where Alison's family lived - a village in Derbyshire.

She also invited me to participate in a series of online trainings that she was delivering and has, on a number of occasions contacted me by email and messenger services for more personal exchanges.  

One such email was to arrange a meeting when she comes to visit her sister and another was to ask me to make a contribution to a new training she is developing.  She has also been instrumental in the current rebranding that I am undertaking.

And as for the Aston Martin? - Well that is still work in progress!

So I hope that you can see that the simple phrase "Wouldn't It Be Great If.......? can prove very powerful, it can open up a wide range of possibilities that you may have never considered before.

Five simple words can wield so much power!


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About Dave   I am a coach; speaker; radio presenter and founder of The Blue Sky Company.  I am also a therapist and my therapy work includes music therapy; crystal therapy and Reiki.  Currently I am studying towards a Diploma in Mindfulness

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